Anger

  Posted on April 25, 2018  by abraaradmin  No comments

Q: How can one control their anger and become calm in the face relentless harshness towards them?

A:

السَّلَامُ عَلَیْکُمْ وَ رَحْمَةُ اللهِ

May Allah help and grant you and us every success in this challenging field of jihad with ones own self.

In Turbulences

Recite salawaats
Walk away
Stand if sitting
Sit if standing
Drink some water
Offer him some water
Give no room to any thoughts inviting you to leave home.
You will be tempted to reply, to raise your voice, to shout back but do not reply.
Breaking a relationship is never an option.
Be very patient.
Be very tolerant.

Above mentioned tips are easy to mention but very very difficult to practice.

If applied and observed you will see wonders. Amazing effects will be seen that otherwise you will never witness.

You can apply a little penalty on yourself by reciting 114 salawaats or some prayers or by paying some sadaqa as an atonement for losing your temper.

If we have that sincere intent that we want to adopt this beautiful trait of tolerance & patience, outlets will be formed in an amazing way.

Iltemase Dua
Hayder Shirazi